By Vanessa Tait, 2nd year MDP student
“In today’s society, there is such pressures to
produce outcomes versus taking the time required to build trusting
relationships first and seeing where that leads, see what it could look like –
this takes a lot of time” -- Vanessa Tait
Vee (L) and Leah (R) with Academic Director, Sarah-Jane Tiakiwai - after being welcomed to the traditional territory of the Waikato-Tainui people |
Offering tobacco to the Waikato River - Giving thanks for allowing us to share this space. |
The relationships we have with one another, with the
land and water are interconnected.
Having always dreamed of visiting New Zealand and meeting the Maori
people, the opportunity came when I could choose a field placement anywhere internationally
as a requirement for the Master’s program I am a part of.
From the moment I was connected with the
Waikato-Tainui College for Research and Development, the relationship began
with the connection of one of my instructors who had visited the college before
and had a connection with the Academic Director and another colleague of the
college. I had connected with the college via email
introduction, followed by a few Skype meetings.
As mentioned it takes time to build relationships, therefore in order
for us to understand the projects and where it would lead we needed to be in
their space and develop a relationship with the people, land and water of the
area we would be working in.
Building a connection with the Tree - the sweatpants say it all - "Respect" |
Upon
arriving at the college, we were introduced and welcomed into the college
whanau (family) with a whakatau (welcoming) circle. It was a familiar feeling to me to be in a
circle and be welcomed in such a gentle way to our journeys ahead here in
Hopuhopu, New Zealand.
Being the first time in another country, there was a
need to connect and ground myself with the land and water. It is important to build a relationship with
all your surroundings not just the two-legged.
This part of the world is beautiful and to be connected to everything
here and welcomed in such an amazing way makes this new relationship one that I
know will last a lifetime.
Back to my project, as I am introduced to the other
entities connected with the college and welcomed and greeted I am humbled. It is inspiring to see the amazing things
that the Waikato-Tainui people are doing.
It is in this introduction that I am connected with two individuals that
I will have the opportunity to learn from and share with on my project. The project is focusing on community
development and looking into social enterprises.
I will stress again, it is important to build
trusting relationships as you work with community. It is within this relationship that the
journey of the project will be guided and the outcome will be one that has been
built together. Keep in mind that the
outcome is not the end product but the learning and collaboration along the
way, remember this takes time and many times relationships have no end……